Why Validation Never Feels Enough Have you noticed that when someone praises you, it does not quite land. It does not seem to build self worth? Instead, you deflect it. At times, you minimise it. During other moments, you explain it away. As a result, you feel uncomfortable receiving it. Yet moments later, you are […]
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Emotional Drivers Behind Behaviour We spend an enormous amount of energy trying to change behaviour. We commit to eating better, promise ourselves to stop procrastinating, vow to set better boundaries, and try to break free from patterns that no longer serve us. Yet despite strong intentions and real effort, many people find themselves returning to
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Your Relationship With Money Money decisions are rarely rational. They are not driven by spreadsheets, logic, or financial planning alone. They are shaped by meaning, memory, identity, and belief. That hesitation before investing in yourself. The guilt that follows spending on your own needs. The ceiling you keep hitting no matter how hard you work.
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What No One Tells You About Being The Strong One You are the one people call in a crisis. The one who holds it together when others fall apart. The one who can cope, solve, support, organise, and manage. Being “the strong one” feels meaningful. It feels like being needed. Until it no longer serves
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It Is Your Nervous System, Not Your Willpower Another year begins with resolutions, motivation, and a list of changes that feel clear in January and impossible by February. Exercise more. Eat better. Be more present. Stop overthinking. Finally get on top of everything. You start strong – You feel motivated – You have a plan.
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You Don’t Need More Insight. You Need a Different Level of Change Most of the people I work with are highly self-aware yet still anxious. They understand their patterns. They have read the books. They have done therapy. And yet, their body still reacts. They still feel anxious in situations they logically know are safe.
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Feeling better is not the same as getting better, understand the difference and what you can do about it, in this blog.
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The truth about anxiety and why high achievers struggle more.
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How your subconscious mind controls your sleep quality and what you can do about it. Quality sleep impacts your mental health and wellbeing find out more here
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Discover why people-pleasing happens, how it drains your energy, and the mindset tools that help you set healthier boundaries with confidence.
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